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In September 2010, Los Angeles group LA Lords sold out both sessions of its first foray into the New York gay speed dating market, and in November, the LGBT Community Center hosted its first Lesbians of Color Speed Dating night.To make the chance for a match as likely as possible, this popular gay men's speed dating option breaks things downs by age and type for each session.The unfortunate reality of singles events (and this applies all over the world) is that women will always attend.Guys are the hardest ones to attract, and confident, attractive guys are the hardest to attract, because normally those guys can walk into bars any night of the week and chat to women.When: Once or twice a month, usually Wednesdays or Thursdays Where: Most often at Gossip Bar & Restaurant, 733 Ninth Avenue, between 49th and 50th Streets Admission: Qwik Dates True to its name, dates here are very quick -- just three minutes with each of your assigned dates -- but there's then a free mingling period during which you can meet anyone else in the room.You then tell the organizers who you'd like to go out with again, and if the feeling is mutual, you and your new sweetie can be off on your next (and presumably more intimate) date.I’ve even seen a woman raise her score sheet above her head at the end of the night, and demonstratively rip it to shreds … I’ve seen men break down in tears, struggle to find conversation topics to last 4 minutes, and most recently one guy admitted he came regularly to speed dating events because it’s the only time women will talk to him!
For the first event I told the men that I was a stewardess and was away most of the time and therefore not looking for anything serious.
And so you often end up with a load of attractive, sociable women, talking to more awkward, a-sociable men, who they would never normally speak to. The guys (who most often turn up awkwardly on their own) are out of their depth, and the women end up disappointed.
I’ve seen women walk out of speed dating events before they even start.
A member of the opposite sex has to talk to you for at least four minutes, and so this encourages the most nervous types of daters.
People who wouldn’t normally approach the opposite sex in the real world. But the problem with speed dating, is that often the women who are attracted to speed dating events are VERY different to the men.
Qwik Dates nights are generally themed (like the recent Boyfriend Material: Arts-Oriented Men) or broken down by age.