Forming friendship before dating relationship
It’s about feeling as though your partner sees your happiness as a priority, rather than an inconvenience or an annoyance.
There is only so long before a mismatch in sex-drives causes a rift in the relationship – possibly a permanent one.
Monogamy just means you choose not to have sex with other people, not that you don’t Some people are very good at monogamy and never experience a moment’s hesitation or temptation.
Other people are very bad at it and inevitably cheat on their partner – even when they have the best of intentions.
Isn’t the love or companionship worth more than indulging in footplay or only having sex once every three months? And while it’s easy to simply say “well, that’s the price of entry” to the relationship, a lack of sexual satisfaction isn’t something that can be brushed under the rug.
If it’s left unaddressed, it grow and fester, turning from dissatisfaction to bitterness and resentment.
Once you’re out of the honeymoon period, then you’re faced with finding out whether there’s really any long-term potential here…
In reality, we will lust after other people or have crushes on other people all the time.
There simply isn’t a way to find a compromise that’s going to be satisfying to both partners; the mismatch in their relative horniness is simply going to be a bridge too far.
The accepted rule of thumb is that the partner with the higher libido should default to the desires of the person with the lower libido…
The most common sexual incompatibility that people run into is a case of mismatched sex drives.
There is always going to be an imbalance in terms of libido – the odds of having if that.
They’re a square peg trying to fit into a round hole; you might be able to wedge it in there, but it sure as hell isn’t going to be a good fit.